I am dating a sci-fi geek.
Adam is a fan of all thing space and spaceship-y. He loves nothing better than to discuss the innermost workings of any sci-fi show and it's characters.
If you know me at all, you are well aware of the fact that I am not a sci-fi person by any stretch of the imagination. I'm not opposed, but I have just not had the urge to watch any of the shows or movies. I prefer to spend my time enjoying programs that are anchored on Earth and revolve around things that are familiar, rather than on distant planets or galaxies.
That's just me, but I am trying to be open minded and get to know some of Adam's interests.
Unless you have been living under a rock, you know that a new Star Trek movie came out on Thursday. Adam wanted to share this movie and experience with me, so opening night has been on my calendar for months.
He and I had obviously discussed how I had never seen an entire episode of the series or any of the movies. All I knew was the smallest bits of pop culture trivia associated with the franchise. Plus, J.J. Abrams directed the movie. I trust him completely, as he has given me hours or great television with Felicity and Lost. I was excited.
I do have to say that I had been enjoying driving him crazy all week by saying phrases such as "I hope that the lady with the buns on her head is in the movie" or "are those little bear critters gonna be in this one?" I think my favorite one was when I asked if the "green Muppet guy" was going to play a big part. I know just enough about Star Trek and Star Wars to be able to annoy him with those kinds of statements. He was not amused, but I was.
Before the show, we met some friends and had Indian food. I had never tried that particular type of food before that night. Honestly, I did not care for it. I want to try it again and see if I simply had the wrong thing. It was nice to try something new, though.
Our entire group of nine met at the theater about forty five minutes before showtime. Because it was opening night, there was a long line of people waiting to get inside when we arrived. I was hoping that there would be all kinds of freaky fans to take pictures of, but I only saw two people who were dressed for the occasion. One little elderly lady was dressed up and she was adorable. I got a picture of her, but it unfortunately did not come out well enough to share.
Before we knew it, it was time for the crazy hoard of people lined up outside the theater to enter. It was a mad scramble for seats. I am not sure who, but somebody in our group made the decision that we had to sit in the middle of the theater. It's not like the IMax screen has any bad views, but we simply had to sit smack dab in the center.
There were tons of empty seats in the upper part of the theater, but they were not in the middle section. After surveying the scene, we ended up sitting TWO FREAKIN ROWS up from the screen.
We got seated and then I ran out to hit the restroom before the beginning of the movie. As I was walking back inside, I started feeling a little nauseous. I sat down and hoped that it would subside.
The previews started and I began to think that these seats were not going to be that bad. Sure, I am a sit in the back of the theater person. Yet there are people who enjoy sitting at the bottom of the screen and like looking straight up at it, right?
And then the movie started...
I made it a few minutes before I started feeling really sick. Again, I hoped that it would subside because I was pretty well landlocked because of our positioning in the row.
It was fun to observe Adam watching the movie. His reactions and excitement reminded me of last summer when I saw the Sex and the City movie on the big screen. It was really cute to see him enjoying the events unfolding on the screen no more than ten feet from our noses.
I tried to watch and get into the movie, but I kept feeling worse.
The plot itself seemed like a good one. I know nothing about space travel, galaxies, beaming people up, how people breathe in space, why gravity is not making these characters float around or anything else on the screen. It would have been nice to have known something or had an interpreter. It's not my cup of tea, but I was trying to support my boyfriend and share an experience with him.
Through most of the movie, I had been trying to focus on a particular certain spot on the screen to keep from getting sick from the motion. This plan was not working. I tried closing my eyes for a minute or two to see if that helped. It kinda did.
Yes, kids.. I fell asleep during the Star Trek movie.
Dead asleep. We are talking snoring and drool asleep.
Not good.
Something woke me up and I realized that I had been out for a while. I tend to fall asleep when watching tv, but it is usually at my house with my DVR and not at the opening night of a blockbuster movie.
When the movie ended and my friends were excitedly discussing and making plans to see it again, it came out that I had slept through part of the movie. They were shocked. I was mortified.
I wanted to watch the movie. I wanted to like the movie. In fact, I wanted to love it. I wanted to run home, thrilled by my newfound love of the genre and beg to watch old episodes.
That night, none of that happened. I had a boyfriend who was disappointed in me, plus a group of friends who thought I was crazy. It was totally not the evening that I had planned.
Honestly, I kinda feared that it might cause some problems with Adam. I did not sleep well that night and felt awful about the incident. The nausea was also still there, which did not help. He was not mad at me or anything, but was just kinda hurt that I fell asleep.
At work the next day, I tried to figure out how to make it better. After a while, it came to me. I took takeout over to Adam's house and we watched the pilot episode of Star Trek: The Next Generation. I made it through the whole episode completely coherent and awake!
I did not follow much of it, but it made a lot more sense than the movie. He was there, pausing the DVD and trying to explain some of my problem spots. It is so cute to listen to him explaining it to me. I was probably staring at him with glassed over eyes, but I was making an effort. We have looked online for some kind of Star Trek 101-type video or website, but I have not found one. If you know of something that will help, please leave me a comment.
I really am making an effort. I want to share his love for this franchise, but I just don't know if it is in me.
I am definitely going to try.
Only after I have had a good nap, though.
Stay tuned...